Wednesday, July 2, 2014

Secrets of Happy Life - Part 2

Secret # 5.  When both parents are involved in parenting of children, both the marriage and children benefit. A recent study found that the average dad, in America,

only spent 47 seconds per day in conversations with his children. It's critical to have fathers involved in shaping the character and moral values of our children. 

Effective interaction with fathers can help our children develop a greater understanding of who they are and who they can become.   
Spend enough time with your child to let them know that you are on their side and want what is best for them.
   
Secret # 6.  Although it is "common" for teenagers to rebel and have conflict, it is not "normal".  We often hear of the turmoil of the teenage years; however, the

teenage years can actually be a time that parents and their teenagers grow closer together.   
As parents and teenagers discuss their differences of opinion, their relationships will be strengthened and there will not be an open rebellion against parental

authority.  Teenagers still needed reasonable and appropriate boundaries, as these are discussed and reinforced, a parent can help guide their teenager  through the

years of discovery that will help them  develop into a contributing young adult.  
 
Secret # 7.  The key to raising a 'successful child' is by being a successful parent.  A parent cannot 'make' their child successful; they can only give them the tools

to find success themselves. These tools include modeling appropriate behavior in relationships, how they work around the home and serve in their community.  As your

children see the happiness that comes from maintain a strong working relationship in your marriage, they will want to model this in their lives as well.
 
Secret # 8.  There are times when all children choose not to obey or comply with directions from their parents.  Some parents hope in vain that if they ignore this

non-compliant behavior it will go away. However, not only will it not go away, your child will begin to test you in other areas of their life.  In reality, children

want and need boundaries and consequences for their good and bad choices, without consistent boundaries and consequences it is difficult for children to function

appropriately in their family, school and neighborhood. Therefore, non-compliant behavior needs to be dealt with swiftly and consistently and should not be allowed to

divide the parents. 

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